Thursday 26 November 2009


Gulp gulp.

I think I might be drinking more and it might be for nefarious reasons. I can definitely handle my booze and stop when I’ve had enough, but I’ve noticed that when I’m in certain settings, I tend to drink more. Or think about drinking more. I think it’s out of sheer boredom and a lack of connection with people. When I’m invited to join certain groups, the first thing I think of is “I hope there is decent wine because I am going to need it to make it through this evening”. And that’s appalling to me. I never used to think that way. The Brits have no sense of saying when enough is enough (I know this is a generalization but it's honestly what I've observed) and I’m worried that I’ve started to adopt this thinking. I’ve never drunk myself into oblivion or puked or peed in public, which my follow residents are apt to do, but my thinking has changed. I sometimes want to get drunk to better endure the conversation, the jokes and the atmosphere. And that sucks. Hard. NYE is fast approaching, and given our dire evening two years ago when I tried so hard to get drunk to escape the tedium and blandness, I’ve told that Dave that I don’t want to celebrate outside with anyone else. Stilted conversations with a bottle of Malibu just ain’t my idea of fun. I wish we could get away and watch fireworks light up the sky, but we can’t. Though a roaring fire, my sweetie beside me and a glass (or two) of champagne would be the next best thing.

2 comments:

  1. mm... I dread that moment when you suddenly sober up and realize, perhaps in the middle of a laugh you'll have to fake to complete, that you really aren't having that great of a time.

    Have you considered consciously avoiding drinking when that feeling comes on?

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  2. Arrrrgh, I just typed the longest response to this but then it was eaten by the evil lords of interweb. To summarise in PowerPoint-like bullet points:

    * Speaking from experience, drinking to endure conversation is an absolute no-no and can lead to much worse patterns of unhealthy drinking if you've no self-control like me. Please don't fall into that trap.
    * Your perceptions of drink culture in the UK are largely accurate and you really shouldn't apologise for them. I think in the original draft of this I laid out some magical plan for change then rescinded it with some snide remark about obnoxious straight-edgers. I will leave that as an exercise for the imagination.
    * I'm really sorry about being the host of your called-out crappy evening. :(

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